How to Explore Further with Your Partner Using Tools
The second round of Maxinne’s guinea pig Christmas project is here, with the theme: how to explore further with your partner using tools.
Pure sex without any additions is definitely my favorite, but especially in a long-term partnership where intimacy happens often, I find it extra beneficial to bring in some tools. They can add freshness and excitement, breaking the normal routine and introducing new sensations.
I took my time carefully selecting these gems, with guidance from the incredible women at Lustly, picking both personal favorites and some of the most popular products on the market.
Perfect to gift your partner this Christmas to keep the playfulness alive in your sex life!
Kama Sutra Sex Positions Book
I want to start with this classic book. Even though I know many positions, it’s always fun to learn new ones and be inspired. What I absolutely loved about this book is that it caters to all gender combinations! It includes positions for penis & penis, vagina & vagina, and penis & vagina, making it inclusive and versatile. Plus, it allows you to expand your imagination and creativity in exploring different ways to connect with your partner.
It’s beautifully written, easy to follow, and packed with fun and sexy examples. Definitely a must-have if you want to spice up your sex life and bring some new moves into the bedroom.
Mind, Body & Soul Game
I love games, and this one is special because it serves a higher purpose than just sexual pleasure. Mind, Body & Soul is designed to deepen your connection by focusing on emotional and spiritual intimacy. As you move around the board, you and your partner ask each other questions that open up your chakras.
With 240 chakra-healing questions covering seven chakras, this game allows you to connect on a deeper level while still having fun. You win by aligning all seven chakras, and your partner rewards you with an intimate experience that aligns your sacral and heart chakras. It won “The Adult Game of the Year” in 2019, and I completely understand why! It’s an amazing experience that goes beyond just physical pleasure.
Arcwave Pow – The Avant-Garde Stroker
This is a modern manual stroker with a natural air suction system, designed to mimic the sensation of oral sex. It has a juicy, stimulating interior that creates pleasurable sensations. Perfect as a solo toy or to use with a partner as a break from traditional oral and hand stimulation.
I tried this on my partner, and he loved it! It was the perfect tool to add into our foreplay before moving on to intercourse. If you’re looking for something new to spice up your playtime, this is definitely a great choice.
MOJO Blackjack Dildo – Double the Fun
I love anal play, and I love it even more when it’s combined with vaginal penetration. This dildo makes that fantasy come true, essentially giving the experience of having sex with a partner who has two penises.
The dildo can be attached under the penis, or on a strap-on, making it versatile for different pairings. It’s the perfect size, affordable, and an absolute 10/10 for me. I’ve owned this little gem for a while now, and it never gets boring!
We-Vibe Tease Us Set – Double the Pleasure
This set is designed for couples with two vaginas and features two panty vibrators with remotes. We-Vibe is one of my favorite brands, known for their high-quality sex toys, and this set is no exception.
While I haven’t had the chance to try it out with a partner yet, I did test it on myself, and it was a beautiful sensation. I can only imagine how much more fun it would be with another person in the mix. It’s perfect for date nights, letting you tease each other before heading home to finish the fun!
Zalo Aya Massager – Elegant & Versatile
Another fantastic panty vibrator, but this one comes with a twist! It has different add-ons that allow for internal stimulation as well. Personally, I prefer this because it provides more variety.
The design is stunning, the packaging is luxurious, and it makes for a super sweet and thoughtful gift. Whether for yourself or your partner, it’s a beautiful way to introduce new sensations into your intimate life.
Why Try Sex Toys with Your Partner?
Sex toys can elevate your connection by introducing variety and enhancing physical pleasure. Here are some reasons why they can be a game-changer:
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Breaks Routine: Trying new sensations prevents sex from becoming monotonous.
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Encourages Exploration: Discovering what feels good together can deepen intimacy.
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Enhances Foreplay: Toys can prolong arousal and make every encounter more exciting.
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Improves Communication: Using toys opens up discussions about pleasure and boundaries.
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Creates Playfulness: Sex should be fun, and adding tools makes it feel like an adventure!
Whether you’re in a new relationship or a long-term one, adding a few new elements to your sex life can be an exciting and rewarding experience. These tools are perfect Christmas gifts to surprise your partner and explore pleasure in new ways.
I hope you find these recommendations helpful, and most importantly – have fun experimenting!
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Love, Maxinne